Re: [Harp-L] Jam session etiquette question

[Larry Marks <larry.marks@xxxxxxxxxxxx>]

At our weekly jams, I am one of the regulars as well. Our objective in 
having these jams is to give people who do not play regularly a chance 
to play. For purposes of the jam, I regard myself as a sideman who will 
take the lead if asked. I would rather one of the less experienced 
people have a chance.

Now when someone does something out of line, I swallow hard and then do 
whatever I damn well want. I do not speak to the person about the 
problem, allowing hir to come to me about it. If that happens, I will 
straighten them out. Otherwise, I will do one of three things.

1. See if they do it again.
2. Avoid them if they are just bugging me.
3. Throw their asses out if they are too disruptive, too drunk, etc.

Basically, then, I won't do anything if their behavior affects only me. 
I am there to help others enjoy the experience of playing blues, because 
I get to play plenty of gigs. If it affects others, then it is time for 
them to go. This is supposed to be a fun experience for everyone and one 
AJ (sp. asjol) will not be allowed to spoil it for everyone else.

  -LM