Re: [Harp-L] asking to sit in



I never ask. It's cool to let them know you can play. If they want they can ask you. If they let you sit in do your thing, thank the band & get the hell out of the way. I almost always refuse to let people who ask sit in unless I know them.
buzz




On 8/4/2011 7:30 AM, Robert Hale wrote:
WHEN IT'S NOT A JAM
There are situations where a band is working and I'd like to jump up for a
couple of tunes. I know I'm capable, but they don't. Respectfully asking to
join them is usually met with "we don't do that," or a polite, non-specific,
"yeh, maybe we'll call you up." (Yeh, maybe.)

PLAY FIRST, THEN ASK
To overcome their guard against the unknown, I just wait for the end of a
set. Greet a band member with a big smile and a compliment. Play them a
lick. Now the unknown part is out of the way. Takes a little courage, but
usually works.

What is your experience?

Robert Hale
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